The best way out..

I dunno why.. but I think on very different lines when it comes to solving problems that surface each one in our everyday lives.. I just thought i'll share one such different thought in the form of a small, imaginary, narrative incidence..

The other day, the pressure at the workplace was building. Everyone was working to get the best out of their departments. Lots of people were working on varied things at the same place to get the show perfect.. Suddenly, a short argument broke out.. Short but a little intense.. Sam was almost done with his work.. he was tryin to experiment a little to get that perfect touch.. Sonny on the other hand was still working to complete her work and was getting disturbed by Sam's activities.. His chatter-batter seemed to bother her.. Completely unawares of what he was doing.. she gave him a good tell-off "hey, if you're done with your work.. pls let others work.. why the hell are you disturbing people with this nonsense??"

Sam was doing nothing but working.. So he argued back and tried to tell her he was not fooling around but was actually working.. No use.. None would listen..

Huh.. I guess such things happen all the time with quite a lot of us.. Two people.. Tensed atmosphere.. Both unable to understand each other and the problem.. Reason?? Well.. NO reason at all.. Just a misunderstanding..

Both could not understand each other's behaviour then.. Maybe the workload had just got a little intense for the gal..

That day, Sam thought to himself.."What had gone wrong with an always good relationship?" Soon he realised.. Nothing.. Nothing had gone wrong unless he thought it had..

(The better way out-- Forgive and forget..

The best way out-- Understand and forget..)

We can forgive and forget when the other person is at fault.. But maybe sometimes its just that the situation was wrong and nobody else?? At such a time whom to forgive??

The answer is none..

In such times, the best way out is.. Firstly, understand-- that it is noone's fault.. and secondly, forget-- the bitter moments.. Afterall.. It's our choice.. We are the ones who choose what to live with.. the bitter or the sweeter of the moments in life...

I might sound way too philosophical and immpractical.. But this is something i have been able to cultivate as a habit.. gussa toh sabko aata hai.. mujhe bhi aata hai.. bahut aata hai.. par main bhoolna bhi seekh gayi hu.. (everyone gets angry.. even i do.. but i've learnt to forget..)

N trust me people.. Its really easy.. N life's far better this way!! I'm loving it this way.. Oh yeah!!

friend connects..

life's full of loads of ppl.. but more than many times i realise its actually a small world.. i tend to think God clusters ppl of the same kind together.. i have many friends whose friends are friends of my other friends.. friend1 and friend2 might not noe each other.. but then they do have a real good no. of common friends..

its damn interesting when u noe about such weird friend connects among two of your friends who you think dun noe each other.. for eg. sudeep is my friend from class 9th.. he's siddha's school friend.. amruta's colg friend.. pranoti's 12th clas friend.. pranoti is my colg friend.. siddha is my 12th class friend.. n so is amruta..

confusing, huh?? this is just one.. but these days i've found many such connects of many of my buddies.. its really amazing how ppl are part of the "web" of life..